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What Does Penetration Feel Like?

 
You know what you feel.
You're only guessing about them.
And they are probably guessing about you. 
 

FInd Out

Take the questionnaire to discover what penetration feels like for you—and what you imagine it feels like for your lover.

Get your results. Then compare.

For privacy, you’ll each complete the questionnaire separately. Once you’ve both finished, compare your results to see how well you understand each other’s experience.

  • About 5 minutes
  • Your answers are private
  • You'll get your own report at the end

Participant Information & Privacy Statement

Nurturing Humanity Research Institute

Study title:

Perceived versus Actual Partner Experiences of Sex: A Comparative Study

Researcher(s):

Petra Zebroff, PhD, Nurturing Humanity Research Institute (Canadian registered charity)

Contact:

pzebroff@gmail.com

What this study is about

This questionnaire is part of a research study conducted by the Nurturing Humanity Research Institute investigating how partners experience sex differently from one another — including physical sensations, what matters most during sex, and what each partner gets out of the experience — with the aim of fostering curiosity and conversation between partners rather than assumptions.

It should take approximately 5 minutes to complete.

Voluntary participation

Taking part is entirely voluntary. You may skip any question and withdraw at any time without giving a reason and without penalty. Because this survey is anonymous, once you submit your responses we cannot identify or remove your individual data, as there is no way to link it back to you.

Sensitive subject matter

This survey asks about sexuality, which may include questions on topics such as sexual behavior, orientation, identity, and/or experiences. Some questions may feel personal or uncomfortable. You are free to skip any question you'd prefer not to answer, and to stop at any time.

If any part of this survey raises difficult feelings, support is available:

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  • Access Line (Action Canada for Sexual Health and Rights): 1-888-642-2725, daily 9 AM–9 PM ET, or text 613-800-6757 — confidential sexual and reproductive health information, support, and referrals, available to anyone in Canada

What data we collect

We collect your responses to questions on beliefs and experiences during sexual intercourse. We do not collect your name, email address, IP address, device identifiers, or any other information that could identify you. No account or login is required.

Anonymity

Your responses are fully anonymous. We have no way to trace a response back to a specific individual, and we do not ask for any identifying information at any point in the survey.

Data storage and security

This survey is hosted on LimeSurvey, with all data stored on servers located within Canada. Access is limited to the research team and protected by

[password authentication / institutional access controls — specify]

Data will be retained for

[retention period per institutional data policy]

and then securely deleted, in accordance with the Institute's data management policy.

How your data will be used

Aggregated, anonymized findings may be used in academic publications, conference presentations, reports, or shared datasets. Because the data contains no identifying information, individual responses cannot be traced to any participant in any output.

Data sharing

Anonymized, aggregate data may be shared in a public or restricted-access research repository, or with collaborating researchers, for verification or further study. As no identifying information is collected, this sharing does not create a re-identification risk.

Risks and benefits

Beyond potential discomfort from the subject matter (see above), there are no anticipated risks. There is no direct personal benefit to participating, but your responses will contribute to a better understanding of your experiences of sex, including physical sensations, priorities during sex, and personal takeaways, and how these compare to your perception of your partner's experience.

Age and consent

This survey is intended for participants aged 19 years or older. By proceeding, you confirm that:

  • You have read and understood the information above

  • You are 19 years of age or older

  • You understand your participation is anonymous and voluntary

  • You voluntarily agree to participate

☐ I agree to participate

☐ I do not agree to participate